From the Desk of Connie Dobbs: 

Imagine This

September 8, 2025
"God IS is Goddess Allovus & Allovit" is in an asexual (Gray Ace, there's a spectrum to the depth of potential connection) polyamorous relationship with all of us and all of it, through all of us and all of it. 

Thus, All Love Us, All Love It. 

Allovus and Allovit. 

The greatest love story there ever was is will be. 

So. 

With that in mind, tap into the frequency of Unconditional Love and Ecstatic Joy, contained within Calm Appreciation.

Sit back, and enjoy the ride.

The Chao is well fed. 

And the Blessed Bee said, "Blessed be!"
And the Holy Shit said, "Ho-ho-ho-ha-ha-ha-ho-ho-ha-ha-holy shit, y'all."

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Distinguishing the Programs

May 12, 2021
More and more, we are able to discern the programs--are they Perfectly Dysfunctional or Imperfectly Functional?

More and more, we are thanking each illuminating crystal for amplifying the programs that deserve Celebrating/Appreciating/Cultivating...AS WELL AS the human crystals processing the programs that need Eliminating. 

Here's the deal: Perfectly Dysfunctional Programs RUN YOU. They require resources to operate; attention needs to be PAID to the them--by obligation. PD Programs. They want ...
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Posted by Just Another Connie Rep. GODIZ Queen!.

 

On the Subject of P

August 23, 2020
Preferable + Pleasant = Practical

Why? Because if it's unpleasant, then we will not be able to keep it up/maintain the practice, because we don't want to do it. 

Anything that we do not want to willingly do, is us saying "yes" when we want to say "no".... and the mind has to do lots of gymnastics to justify the unwilling "yes" and shove down the frustration at one's self for making an agreement that one did not feel 100% comfortable with...

It usually results in some sort of blow-up...like getti...
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Expectations May Produce Baggage

August 23, 2020
Preferences establish our individual opinions about our likes and dislikes; some preferences are flexible, and others not. 

The preferences that we decide are inflexible, are our boundaries; in my opinion, as long as anyone else's preferences don't include willingly harming/endangering any non-consenting adjacent individual, whether near or far, then it's okay.

It may not be the beat that I prefer to dance to most of the time, but I can appreciate that other people value it; and through my app...
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Posted by ConnieErisFreyalisticIsisShaktiDeva.

 

Objective Acceptance

April 15, 2019
Objective acceptance of what is; with discernment...

Judgement is not required; it's not about the "right" or "wrong" direction...

It's about choosing the direction that is most practical, preferable, & pleasant (in that order) to each individual. 

And accepting that if, in any given moment, if there is an "un-" before any of the P's, it's temporary. 

Discernment helps us find the practical in that which is unpleasant or not preferable--so there is still value in the experience.

Find the value--ho...
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The Feel of Things

June 6, 2017
Sometimes, when we feel shitty, it's not even our shit.

We're processing the collective's shit.

So don't hold on to that shit; it's not our shit, and it stinks anyway.

And when it looks like someone's feeling shitty; support them by getting out of the way when they are expressing that shit (in whichever way it comes out), don't get in the way, bc then we might think it was thrown at us, and it wasn't--we just stood in the way like fools, and sometimes we even pick it up and throw it back.

Then it...
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Reminder: Pain is Noise

May 1, 2017
Whether physical or emotional, pain may be perceived as internal noise.

The louder it is, the more distracted we are from the outside world, as our attentions are pulled inward.

Our bodies may interpret that noise as pressure--the same way listening to a loud sound system can cause discomfort to our ear drums--because it IS too much pressure. 

When the pressure/noise is intense/loud enough, our Protective systems can be engaged, directing us to look externally for the source of discomfort...and ...
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Systems Activate!

May 1, 2017
When is it worth it to get out of neutral?

So often, we don't really have a choice; our Protective systems engage automatically to protect us.

Sometimes, though, what is activating our Protective systems are not genuine, authentic threats.  When the system triggered, take a moment, breathe, and may we ask ourselves, "Is this really a threat? Am I really in danger?"

Since it is our opinions that activate our Protective/Reward systems, it may be beneficial to acknowledge when an opinion is just th...
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Riding the Luck Plane

March 19, 2017
Connie's preferred method is coasting, in neutral...riding the wave, and allowing the natural momentum (chaos) to propel us forward...slackfully.

There may be stalls at times.  Neutral may be a slow start, or no start at all, unless the conditions in the surrounding environment are within the certain parameters required to propel our vehicles forward.

When is it worth it to get out of neutral?

When we need to move--when we've Stalled for too long, and something needs to change. 

What may stimulat...
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Is That Really My Opinion?

March 17, 2017
Let us ask ourselves---because so very many of the opinions we have aren't even our own.

How does each opinion make us feel?  Is there discomfort?  Maybe that opinion is not authentically our own. 

We don't have to continue feeling/thinking opinions that aren't our own, once we recognize them.  Many opinions are simply socio-cultural programs that have been running for generations.

The danger of opinions, is that our nervous systems may perceive those thoughts--opinions--as actual threats, which...
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About Me


There are many of us, really. J.R. "Bob" Dobbs and Connie Dobbs both live within us, in a tenuous balance. Some are more "Bob"; some are more Connie. There are female "Bob(s)", and male Connie(s). Can you perceive the possibility of/have faith in many different (usually contradicting) ideas/systems, yet not take them siriusly whatsoever? You may be more of a Con. Do you believe in nothing, question everything, but take EVERYthing VERY siriusly? Then you may be more of a "Bob." The key is to balance the two within ourselves.

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