Preferences establish our individual opinions about our likes and dislikes; some preferences are flexible, and others not. 

The preferences that we decide are inflexible, are our boundaries; in my opinion, as long as anyone else's preferences don't include willingly harming/endangering any non-consenting adjacent individual, whether near or far, then it's okay.

It may not be the beat that I prefer to dance to most of the time, but I can appreciate that other people value it; and through my appreciation of their appreciation, we add value to whole experience. 

Expectations are the opinions we have of how we think the world *should be*; and when they fail to be met, we turn into hateful, hurtful, human assholes. ha ha ha. indeed. It's not so funny when we are experiencing it; but in hindsight the humor is obvious. ha ha ha. 

When we look at the world through angry lenses, due to our inflexible expectations/opinions, we lose sight of the bigger picture; we lose sight of the whole person, when we direct it at an individual...and we may not make the wisest choices.

Certainly not the kindest. 

And ultimately, that's what changes the game: kindness. And appreciation. 

Through our appreciation of each other, and ourselves, we raise the value of the entire whole. 

Each particle is supported and loved by Allovus (all of us, particles of the Sum of All Parts)...the more we acknowledge and appreciate the SOAP, all of us, Allovus....the more we can recognize how much we are loved and supported by all of us All of us...in oh so many different ways... especially when we are open to receive, and be creative with what we are given. 

So many experiences are opportunities for: objective witnessing; objective introspection; and objective observation.

All three, ow, oi, or oo...they are linked. 

But so are all of us, 
all love us,
Allovus SOAP